This has been such a terribly sad week. Of course, the bombing at the Boston Marathon has been foremost in people’s minds. It is just incomprehensible to me how anybody could have such hate in them that they feel compelled to injure and kill complete strangers. We live in a scary, scary world.
A little closer to home, Pat Summerall passed away today. He was such an incredible man. He was kind, classy, and had a tremendous broadcasting talent. He was also a wonderful example of someone who embraced their second chance and made the most of it. My hubby was blessed to get to know Mr. Summerall on a personal basis. He was one of his favorite people and we both join the families, friends, and fans of Mr. Summerall who are mourning his passing.
This week also held a tragedy at my job. A co-worker was killed in a freak accident. She was only 26. I never got a chance to know her, but everyone who did says that she was one of the best people they had ever known. Most of the people that she worked closely with were close to her in age. For a lot of them this will probably be the first time they have ever lost someone close to them, let alone a peer. I am so proud of the way my company has handled this. They have made counselors available to anyone who needs them, have made sure that everyone has the funeral information, and are even creating a memory book to send to her family. I was just really blown away by the support that they are giving to those who are suffering from this loss.
I have had some tragic losses in my life and consider myself pretty well versed in the mourning process. If I could give those experiencing a loss one piece of advice it is that everyone grieves in their own way. Some people need to continue their life like nothing has happened, some people need to lock themselves away and lose themselves in tears for a while, some people feel the need to constantly be active and fill their life with as many distractions as possible. Nobody can tell you that you are grieving wrong, just as you cannot judge how anyone else grieves. My one caveat to that is that if your grieving process has you turning to drugs or alcohol, if you have suicidal thoughts, or if your grief begins to turn into depression you should seek out help in dealing with it. There is no shame in talking to someone. A burden shared is a burden lessened.
For everyone who has lost family, friends, or co-workers this week, be kind to yourself. The pain does lessen. Your loved one will always be remembered and will always be a part of you. Take the time to mourn the loss and mark their passing in whatever way feels right to you.
Blessings to you all.
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